The beginning.

I still remember waiting up until midnight the night before my 13th birthday. Perhaps this is because I just watched the episode of Full House where DJ Tanner does the same, or perhaps it is because I love to indulge in the almost too-sweet sentimentality of milestones.

Growing up, I always hated hearing adults complain about getting older. I never understood why every ‘Happy Birthday!’ was complimented with a groan from the recipient.

Yet now I suppose it is all too real–another year older, another year wiser and another year gone.

Of course, such a pessimistic view upon turning 20 would be enough cause for concern to whip out the prescription pad. Luckily, my outlook is completely the opposite.

Your twenties are heralded as your selfish years; the best years of your life; your last chance to take a crazy chance. While I don’t necessarily agree with all of these societal stereotypes, I do agree with the idea that your twenties are a defining decade.

Your twenties can define the direction of your life–but so can your childhood, along with those angsty adolescent years. But for the first time, you’re aware that what happens in the present (and near future) has an impact. And you can harness that power.

I believe that your twenties are not about letting these years define you, but are about defining yourself during these years.

It’s easy to feel invincible on the eve of a new decade. It’s a similar feeling to that one felt every December 31st–a feeling of promise, of a future with limitless potential. In 2013, it’s even easier to see through the cracks in those rose-colored glasses.

There will be bumps along the road. The path to success is not clear, but one that you must make for yourself.

As I enter my twenties in 2013, I am intimidated. Yet, this intimidation is more exciting than ever.

I am ready for this adventure.